Come Home to Your Body. Come Home to Yourself.
You don’t need to fix yourself. You just need to remember what safety feels like.
Through somatic coaching, touch-based practices, and gentle nervous system rewiring, I’ll help you reconnect with your body, your pleasure, and your power — safely, tenderly, and at your own pace.
I know what it feels like to live in a body that doesn’t quite feel like home. To crave connection yet tense up when it’s offered.
To long for pleasure but feel nothing — or worse, feel unsafe when it finally arrives.
You are not broken. You are not too much.
Your body has simply learned how to protect you.
This space is where we gently reintroduce your body to safety, so that pleasure, intimacy, and joy can return — naturally.
The Work We Do Together
My work blends somatic sexology, tantric inspired practices and trauma-informed coaching to help you experience sexual energy as something beautiful, natural and of the utmost importance to your vitality and wellbeing…not a luxury that might get squeezed in at the end of a busy week.
Together, we explore:
Reconnecting with your body through your senses
Shedding sexual shame and old stories stored in your body
Reclaiming your pleasure beyond pressure to perform
Learning to communicate desires and boundaries with confidence
Who I Work With
For Women:
You’ve done the therapy, the workshops, the self-development — and yet, something still feels missing. Together, we’ll help your body feel safe enough to open again, to feel again, to trust again.
For Men:
You want to feel more connected — to your partner, your desire, your confidence. You’re ready to learn the art of presence, emotional regulation, and honest intimacy without performance.
For Couples:
You love each other but crave deeper connection, communication, and intimacy. In our sessions, we create a safe space to rebuild trust, explore desire, and rediscover pleasure — together.
What Makes This Work Different
Most approaches to intimacy focus on technique or mindset.
Lasting change happens when the mind and body are in agreement. They are sending one coherent signal.
My sessions work by creating the environment for that potential to happen, through the direct experience of being in a relaxed, permissive, sex-positive space.
When you work with me, you’ll experience:
Holistic:
Integration of :
Body
Mind
Heart
Energy
Spirit
This is the holy grail of touch!
Based in the body:
Practices that invite:
Relaxation
Arousal.
Nervous System Safety
Sleasure
Openness & Sensation
This is the holy grail of touch!
Co-creation:
Everything is an invitation:
Your pace
Your boundaries
Always honored
This is the holy grail of touch!
The Experience
Most clients describe their sessions as coming home.
We start where you are — maybe that’s numbness, fear, or lacking or longing.
Together, we meet your body’s truth, layer by layer.
You’ll learn how to listen to your body’s signals, support your nervous system, and reconnect with the aliveness that’s been eagerly waiting for you to show up to the party!
It’s a journey of remembering — not rushing, forcing or fixing.
A full-body, paradigm shift from pressure and performance based connection, into self-sourced joyful pleasure, reverence for innate somatic wisdom, and juicy heart-led connection.
Trusted sexual health for men and women
Unlimited acess to medical providers
A simple process with results
On-demand medical support,
100% online
Client Reflections
Manny
“Before working with Becky, my relationship with my body around sex was predominantly unconscious, loaded with fear, guilt, shame around performance and endurance.
Becky facilitated my sessions with respect, safety, discretion, gentleness and wisdom. My most coveted insight working with Becky is that through breath work, presence and intention, mystical arcane sexual energy can be tapped for prolonged periods.
By working with Becky and practice, I have dispelled major blocks and resistances around my sexual abilities which I now celebrate with conscious erotic sanctity and joyous pleasure ;)”
Lachie, 47
I was guided to Becky by the recommendation of my tantric coach when the latter moved overseas. Sure, I had already done a few years of tantric coaching supplemented by bodywork I had already done a few years of tantric coaching supplemented by bodywork before but I felt I needed some more bodywork to centre and consolidate the work I had done. I felt I still had a tendency to drift back into my head during time with lovers.
Working with Becky I was able to realise I could deepen my connection to my body and cycle the energetic build up of pleasure without ejaculating for longer and longer, distributing throughout my whole body in an amazing way across the space of a whole hour soon enough. I'd read about this happening sure and couldn't shake the last vestiges of skepticism… but it was with Becky that I first managed to feel full embodiment and overcome the mental blockages I was coming up against. Sometimes being or feeling is believing. Now I have the confidence that I can access pleasure throughout my body as needed, no longer fearing I will become lost in my head and cut off from deeper and greater energy and sexual potential. I'm more capable of dropping into my body and receiving while still feeling masculine and empowered, yet able to bring a gentle sustained strength to connecting with lovers.”
Emma, 33
“Before working with Becky I never enjoyed sex. I felt either pain or numb in the process which made me feel really guilty and sad. What I learnt through working with Becky was self care and self love.
Sex is not just about pleasing my partner, it’s also about my pleasure.
I learnt how to relax my body through breathing techniques and meditation.”
Peter & Gill, 71 & 69
“We both felt very comfortable about sex and our bodies before seeing Becky, and we wanted to explore something different.
Working with Becky we learned how to experience more tenderness in our love making.
Emotions that were stored in our bodies for years were released.
We are both more comfortable with asking one another what we need and desire.
It was a very rewarding and wonderful sexual experience like nothing we had ever experienced in our lifetime.”
FAQ — Your Questions, Answered with Care
Each session begins with a conversation — a chance for you to share where you are and what’s coming up in your body or relationships.
From there, we may explore gentle somatic practices like breathwork, body awareness, movement, or guided touch. Everything we do is at your pace, with your full consent.
No two sessions look alike because no two bodies are the same.
My role isn’t to “fix” you, but to help you listen to your body in a new way — one that invites safety, connection, and eventually, pleasure.
No — this is not talk therapy or clinical treatment.
Somatic sexology and intimacy coaching are educational and experiential, focusing on embodiment, nervous system regulation, and relational awareness.
Many of my clients see a therapist alongside this work, and the two approaches often complement each other beautifully.
Never without consent, and never without preparation.
Most sessions are fully clothed and focus on awareness, communication, or guided somatic exploration.
If bodywork becomes part of your healing journey, it’s always discussed well in advance and guided by clear boundaries, transparent consent, and mutual agreement. You are always in control.
This work is not sexual entertainment or erotic service.
While it may involve discussing sexuality or learning to feel pleasure safely, everything is grounded in education, trauma-informed care, and somatic awareness.
Pleasure is not the goal — it’s the result of safety, embodiment, and healing.
Yes. My work is trauma-informed, which means we go slowly, gently, and with deep respect for your nervous system.
You set the pace, and we always work within your window of tolerance.
If something feels too much, we pause, breathe, and listen.
Your safety and agency are at the heart of everything we do.
Absolutely.
Couples coaching is a beautiful way to deepen trust, communication, and intimacy together.
We’ll explore what safety looks like for both of you — not through blame or pressure, but through curiosity and connection.
You can book a discovery call to discuss what kind of couples work would best support your relationship.
That’s completely normal.
Most clients arrive feeling a little unsure or even afraid — and that’s okay. This space is built to hold that.
You don’t have to know the right words or have it all figured out. You just have to show up, exactly as you are.
Every body moves at its own pace.
Some clients feel shifts after just one or two sessions; for others, change unfolds gradually over several weeks.
What matters most is consistency and safety — because sustainable transformation comes from rewiring your body’s responses, not forcing quick fixes.
Yes. I see clients both in person and online.
Many people actually find online sessions deeply effective because they can explore from the comfort and privacy of their own space.
We’ll discuss what format feels best for your comfort and goals.
What’s the best way to start?
The first step is simple: book a free discovery call.
We’ll talk about what’s been happening for you, what you’re hoping to experience, and how this work can support your healing.
There’s no pressure to commit — just a safe, honest conversation to see if this feels right for you.
Still undecided?
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